How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 02:52
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why are white women so overly emotional?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What I need from you?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Did you become a cuckold for your wife?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why is the band Nickelback unliked so much?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Redefining physics to roll a ball vertically - Phys.org
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Bettor banned for heckling Olympic star Thomas - ESPN
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
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That's it for today.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Department of Homeland Security lists Buncombe County as 'sanctuary jurisdiction' - WLOS
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Rick Pitino 'Feels Bad' For Tom Thibodeau After Knicks Firing - Sports Illustrated
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Ask yourself:
Making more friends is a goal.
Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How do you know how physically attractive you actually are?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.